That selfie you took

upOff to wherever for whatever, but before we go—
snap that photo in the here and now and post
it up to the fast receding, the there and when,
that touch that was, hope fading into forgot…

There we’ll remain with our firm, sure smiles,
left for our heirs to puzzle out, caught by us
in their time as were we in ours at the try:
whatever did we think we had to look forward to?

This is what ties us, each generation, one to the other,
no one else understanding the race, going/going/gone,
that determined moment we thought so real, sent
before us just the same. Almost as if by accident.
What was it I thought I was saying?

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My apologies for such a long hiatus, but I’ve been working on a project for my Masters degree.

I was struck recently by an article discussing how fast we are loosing the World War 2 vets. In the United States, 16 million men and women were in uniform for that conflict, but now less than a million are alive. Their median age today is in the mid 90’s. Those who still remain are dying at a rate of 500 a day.

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Look at them. So young and confidant, so sure of the pure reality and timelessness of their moment and now fading, almost gone…and we who remain, no matter how hard we try, we cannot grab their moment, their reality.

And what does that say to us of our so-real-to-us, reality? Much, I think.

Thank you for reading That selfie you took. I humbly appreciate your visiting the Book of Pain, and as always, I look forward to your comments.

To see my photography, please visit the Book of Bokeh  blog.

john

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7 responses to “That selfie you took

  1. It’s funny how selfies from earlier in the 20th century seem so much more interesting than all those I see on Facebook today! What’s this project that you’re working on for your degree?

    – Elizabeth

    • I think that when we see an older selfie we assign a rough date to it and then try to imagine everything that has happened to that person. Can be a scary walk…

      I had the option of either doing a thesis or a project for my Masters in Digital Sciences from Kent State University. Hating research I opted for the project which I pursued at my work. I was (of course) really late getting it in…days under the very last possible wire and 3 months after I had said I would deliver it. Still it’s done and just heard that I got an A on it! 🙂 I am very pleased.

  2. This post, powerful, hits (not the nail on the head, but) the picture right on the money … and takes me to those awesome men and women in the 2nd World War. My dad … he was in the South Pacific in World War 2. He is 92. I know that he is ready to go Home. This was really good, John. Peace.

    • Thanks T! My dad was in the Navy and crisscrossed the Atlantic on the Save England convoys. He passed away last year at 90. Interestingly it was only in the last few years of his life that he would talk about his WW2 service. Eventually I realized that it was survivor’s guilt that had kept him silent all those years…he saw too many men not come home.

      What a generation they were!!! 🙂